BUT BUT BUT if they dont put out on the first date then they will get all annoyed when after you drop them off you go back to the bar.

It is not always wrong when the two of you decided to have some sort of connection in that aspect. I guess it has to do with an individuals maturity level and confidence level. Sometimes the passion and chemistry is just exceeded your expectations, and I firmly believe there are still awesome relationships and marriages came out of first date sexual encounters.....i mean if you were with the right person who is meant to be with you...it can work, too.

Sometimes, like one out of 100 times, there is overwhelming love and chemistry at the first meeting. If you have been talking for 6 hours straight and are walking around talking and the sun is coming up....chances are this person and you have something more than just a physical attraction. You still have to practice safe sex though.......no excuses in this day and age. Ask, talk, if they don't answer, or are not forthcoming.......then don't do it....no matter what. Personally. I don't think sex early in dating is a good idea as a standard practice. It is one thing to be a 19 gone wild for one night and another to be a 30 year old with an STD. So think about what you can live with....can you live with yourself if the object of your lust is a one night stand? Most Men seem to be Ok with this, but as a woman, I am not. There is still a double standard out there.

Yes it is what will you wake up next to? get to know the person befor geting intimate!